Motivation

Note To Self : Self Forgiveness

I don’t know if I continue, even today, always liking myself. But what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself. It is very important for every human being to forgive herself or himself because if you live, you will make mistakes- it is inevitable. But once you do and you see… Continue reading Note To Self : Self Forgiveness

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Chronicles of a Recovering People Pleaser Part 2

As a recovering people pleaser I am unlearning a few things, behaviour I thought were normal and at the same time I am learning new truths that feel right for me. I have shared in the first part of these series about my inability to say No and how I am learning to say those two letters… Continue reading Chronicles of a Recovering People Pleaser Part 2

Motivation · My Words

Chronicles of a Recovering People Pleaser Part 1

Being a people pleaser can be exhausting and for the longest time I was exhausted and very grumpy as a result of this. It is exhausting because all you do is give give give give even during times when it is not necessary to give. Yes becomes the most spoken word even during times when… Continue reading Chronicles of a Recovering People Pleaser Part 1

Motivation

What Is Important

“And every day, the world will drag you by the hand, yelling, “This is important! And this is important! And this is important! You need to worry about this! And this! And this!” And each day, it’s up to you to yank your hand back, put it on your heart and say, “No. This is… Continue reading What Is Important

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What if

I remember sitting in the psychologist’s couch telling her a lot of what ifs. What if I don’t finish in time? What if my work isn’t good enough? What if I have to redo a few more experiments? I was in my last year of my postgraduate studies, getting ready to finish up my thesis… Continue reading What if