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Chronicles of a Recovering People Pleaser: Fibs

It is one of the little secrets most people pleasers won’t admit to but it is an everyday thing and they  all go through it. The little secret is that the fact that most people pleasers tell fibs. Im calling it a fib because they are suppose to be unimportant. Just little lies to make… Continue reading Chronicles of a Recovering People Pleaser: Fibs

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Chronicles of a Recovering People Pleaser: Boundaries

Boundaries….. As a recovering people pleaser I never knew what boundaries were and this lack of knowledge lead to a lot of heartache and burn outs. I was that person who could hardly say no to requests by people. At the time I knew I needed to do something about it but had no idea… Continue reading Chronicles of a Recovering People Pleaser: Boundaries

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Be Careful What You Wish For

Once upon a time there was a girl called Lapaka. She was a very ambitious young lady and had a plan set out for her life (DV). While she was still at school she had a vision for her career projection, everything was planned out to the last t. First on her list was to… Continue reading Be Careful What You Wish For

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Breathe

I have not been posting on my blog for some time because I have been in what I can only call as a funk. This funk is so deep that even the sight of motivational quotes has not moved me in weeks. I spoke to a good friend about the state I am in because… Continue reading Breathe